Fighting through self-doubt
This post originally appeared on Facebook and got a good response there, so I'm adding it here, to the archive.
I’ve spent much of my life fighting self-doubt and realize it’s held me back quite a bit through the years. There are a few things I’ve found that help work through the times where I’m beating myself up the most. None of these are groundbreaking, but I thought I’d share anyway:
- Recognize I’m being a jerk to myself. Catching myself in the act of trash talking myself is obviously the first step. Breaking that cycle of thought before it gets too deep is so important.
- Do any one little thing to make it feel like I’m not wasting my time being a lazy ass. And that one little thing doesn’t have to even do with whatever major project I’m working on. This week for me, it’s been starting a pre-work running routine – it’s something so simple (replacing the time I’d normally be getting Rasine to school with running a few miles) but it’s a big shift in how I normally work in the morning. As a result, I’ve knocked out 11+ miles this week I wouldn’t have done otherwise and that helps me feel more motivated to move forward on other things I’ve fallen behind on.
- Find inspiration in friends doing awesome stuff. Here’s a secret: I have a Facebook list of people that I most admire and that share things about their projects that I find motivating. Not affirmations and quotes and such, but actual updates on what they’re working on. Lots of entrepreneurs on this list, but not entirely. I load up this feed filter and let y’all remind me to keep it moving when I least feel like it.
And when all else fails: I take a nap. :)
What do you guys do to fight the little hater (credit: Jay Smooth), and push through the self-doubt muck when you’re trying to get things done?